Elikem Kumordzie is obviously not happy about the divorce petition filed in court by his Zimbabwean wife from Big Brother Africa Pokello Nare.
Their son Tristan is with the mother and as a result the fashion designer has written an open letter to the young boy and it is generally an advice.
Elikem has charged his “sweet boy” to spread kindness like wildfire, be brave and courageous, to be respectful and put God first.
He made this known in an Instagram post along with a photo of his son with Pokello Nare.
My dear sweet boy,
You are such a blessing to my life and I love watching you grow! You are just now beginning to show your amazing personality and I am so proud of the young man I see you becoming. You are more perfect than I could have ever dreamed. I knew from before I started having babies that one day I would have a son; I even had your name picked out!
Son, I wish I could change some of the harsh realities that have already happened in your young life. I wish we lived in a world where tragedy didn’t strike innocent children. But I can’t change the past and I can’t protect you from all the bad things, as much as I want to. The best I can do, son, is teach you and guide you to the best of my ability. As you grow, there are a few fundamental things I want you to cling to. Use them as your guide book, especially when life gets tough.
SPREAD KINDNESS LIKE WILDFIRE.
Your dad is the epitome of kindness. Everywhere I go and to everyone i meet, i spread kindness and laughter. Son, you have your Daddy’s same kind heart and compassionate nature. Hold on to that, even when life gets hard. The reason why your Daddy is so widely loved and admired is because he loved and admired everyone around him. Everyone deserves kindness, baby. Don’t be afraid to show it.
BE BRAVE AND COURAGEOUS.
There will be times in your life where you’d rather hide or run or bury your head in the sand than face whatever challenge is in your way. I know because I’ve been there many times. In those times, be brave and show courage. But bravery and courage don’t have to come from you; in fact, it often doesn’t because we, as humans, struggle with the strong grip of fear. Often times it overwhelms us. When that happens, always call on God to give you courage and be brave. He will give you the strength you need to get through the battle.
PUT GOD FIRST
ITS ALWAYS THE RIGHT CHOICE TO DO THE RIGHT THING
My baby, you are far too young for any of this to mean anything to you right now. But I promise that one day you will need these bits and pieces of advice. Tuck them away in your heart and draw them out when you need them.
LOVE. ELIKEM “THE TAILOR” DAD
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The Story So Far
Between May – August 2013, Elikem and Pokello contested in the Big Brother Africa season 8 dubbed ‘The Chase’ edition where their amorous relationship began.
In May 2014, he proposed to her live on stage at the Vodafone Ghana Music Awards when presenting an award for the night.
In June 2015, the two love-birds married and this took place in Zimbabwe.
Their son Tristan was welcomed by the young family in January 2016.
Although it is not when exactly the two broke up, however, in November 2017 it came to light that the they have parted ways.
In February 2018, the two separately confirmed the break up.
Source: Yaw Sarpong | PlugTimes.com